10 Ways to Create Connection Between Exchange Students & Host Siblings

Hosting an exchange student can be an incredibly rewarding experience for your family. It provides an opportunity to learn about different cultures, create lasting friendships, and broaden your horizons. One aspect of hosting that often plays a crucial role in the exchange experience is the relationship between host siblings and the exchange student.  

 Check out our top 10  tips and strategies to help host and exchange siblings connect and make the most of their year together. 


1. Establish Clear Expectations

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It can be valuable to have a family discussion about the expectations and rules in your home early on in the exchange experience. Make sure your host siblings understand the importance of sharing their space, time, and resources with the new family member. Encourage open communication and address concerns or questions they may have.

2. Create a Welcoming Environment 

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Make your home a welcoming and inclusive space. Encourage your host siblings to personalize their rooms with welcome signs, photos, or small gestures of friendship for the exchange student. Celebrate holidays and traditions from both cultures, creating a multicultural environment that everyone can enjoy. 

3. Encourage Open Communication

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Effective communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. Encourage your host siblings to talk to the exchange student about their interests, hobbies, and daily routines. This will help to create a more inclusive and understanding environment. Encourage the exchange student to share their own culture and experiences as well.

4. Plan Fun Activities Together

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One of the best ways to foster a positive relationship between host siblings and the exchange student is to plan fun activities that everyone can enjoy. These could include family outings, game nights, movie nights, or even cooking together. Engaging in shared experiences can help create lasting memories and bonds.

5. Celebrate Achievements 

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Encourage host siblings and the exchange student to celebrate each other’s accomplishments, both big and small. Acknowledge their academic achievements, extracurricular successes, or personal milestones. By celebrating together, you reinforce a supportive and encouraging atmosphere that promotes positive relationships. 

6. Respect Differences

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Cultural differences may occasionally lead to misunderstandings or conflicts. Use these moments as opportunities for learning or growth. Encourage your host siblings to ask questions and seek to understand the exchange student’s perspective. Remind them that it’s ok to have different customs, beliefs, and ways of doing things. 

7. Share Responsibilities 

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It can be very beneficial for household chores and responsibilities to be shared among all family members, including the exchange student. Talk to them about what tasks they may be interested in doing and ensure that everyone has a fair share of the workload. This can help teach responsibility and promote a sense of equality within the family. 

8. Support Each Other

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Remind your host siblings and exchange student that they are part of a support system for each other. They can help each other with schoolwork, language learning, and adapting to the new environment. Encourage them to be patient, understanding, and empathetic towards one another. 

9. Respect Personal Space

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While fostering a sense of togetherness is important, it’s equally crucial to respect each individual’s need for personal space. Teach your host siblings and exchange student to recognize when someone needs time alone or a quiet space to recharge. This can help prevent potential conflicts and ensure everyone feels comfortable within the shared living environment. 

10. Monitor and Check-In

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Keep an eye on the dynamics between your host siblings and the exchange student throughout the year. Regularly check in with each of them individually to ensure they feel comfortable and supported. Address any issues openly and seek solutions together.


Hosting an exchange student can be a transformative experience for your family, and fostering positive relationships between host siblings and the student is a vital part of that journey. Your role in this adventure will help ensure that everyone has a great year of cultural exchange and growth!


Comment below if you have any other tried and true pieces of advice! 


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